What do you dislike in AVNs?

It's more about personal preference, and my preferences will probably just seem trivial, but I prefer things generally being in first person. Intimate stuff or hugs and kisses or whatever. I understand certain shots looking better/more cinematic in third person shots that have us in view, or being easier to do that way. I definitely appreciate all the time you put into it all.
I just prefer it all in first person because it's more personal that way, I suppose. Not putting up with seeing any more than what you want. That, and sometimes I think to myself how I wish I could have more of a say in the kind of attitude/responses and personality that we have, like the MC sometimes acting like a jackass, and irritating you as you go because you'd rather not be that way, or taking an action you wouldn't want, but you've already given us the ability to literally speak for ourselves at all times, so there's that.
Also having more of a say in the type of relationships you have with your chosen lover, and the direction they go after starting them, and deciding who you get involved with to begin with. And things like not sharing your lover if you don't ever want to, even with another girl, not being forced too anyway. Just a wider range of control over some stuff like that that you don't normally get. It must seem like trivial stuff to want from AVNs. I wouldn't want to place too much in your lap for you to have to consider and deal with. Also sorry for not answering sooner, never got notifications, or maybe I have too many.   ~.~